5 Possible Ways to Start A Conversation With A Girl

This is how you not only make a good impression on the girl after the first conversation, but also win her over right away!

Whatever happens between the two of you will be heavily influenced by that first conversation and the impression you make on her.

Because first impressions are so important, here are five ways to make a good first impression on a girl:

1. The importance of timing cannot be overstated.

This is the most important thing you cannot afford to get wrong. There isn't much you can do if your timing is off.

If she's in a bad mood when you approach her, the chances of her being patient enough to listen to you are cut in half. The same is true when she is with a small group of friends, a large group of friends, or in the middle of something else.

You'll need to do a lot more to get her to talk to you normally, and you don't want to put yourself through the stress and risk of failure.

So pay close attention to the timing. This influences her attention span and, of course, can either enhance or disrupt your flow.

2. Display self-assurance.

This should be projected as forcefully as possible without becoming arrogant. You can be confident without being disrespectful or condescending, and this is something you should strive for at all times.

Keep your gaze fixed on her. This is not a negotiable point. Don't mumble or sound hurried with your words, as this will make them sound rehearsed. In most cases, approaching someone for the first time is nerve-racking, but it must be done if you want to get the girl, and with confidence, you're already on your way there.

3. Compliment her deftly.

When you're talking to a girl for the first time, you're pretty much limited to what you say and how you say it.

So, now that you've gained the necessary confidence, the next step is to put it to good use. One example is when you're complimenting the girl.

When meeting a girl for the first time, never forget to compliment her. Keep the cheesy ones to a minimum and stick to genuine compliments. Right there and then, say something nice about what you see on her.

Her eyes, the weave she's wearing, her smile, her shoes... anything could be it. Just make sure it's genuine and not exaggerated. Women can detect and distinguish between compliments and flattery, and they may become uncomfortable if you are overly flattering.

4. Free-form questions

To avoid overdoing the compliments, you'll need to quickly move on to something else. This is where your ability to hold a conversation with her comes into play. You want her to talk, so ask her questions that will encourage her to do so.

Instead of saying, "So, do you have any fun plans for the break?" (which can be answered with a short "yes" or "no"), ask "what are you going to do to keep yourself occupied while school is out?"

A question that requires a detailed response is always preferable to one that can be answered with a simple yes or no.

5. Don't overstay your welcome.

No matter how interesting the conversation becomes, learn to leave while it is still enjoyable. Don't go overboard with the conversation to the point of awkwardness or void silence.

By leaving before the conversation ends, you increase your chances of getting her number, getting her to agree to a date with you, and being able to contact her the next time because she will associate you with fun rather than boredom.

And there you have it, the potential start of all things romantic between you and her.